Fair enough - i can see the argument from your side and no need for this to go on any longer. As you say, you made your decision and fair enough stick to it. I do think it was right to air my views instead of just "accepting it" or "giving a small donation" as i wanted to get my points across. We would all do things differently, but at the end of the day, this isnt my site.

Seems the majority of the board are in agreement with you and so be it. If i can come back on 1st December and still have the same access i currently have then great, i may well return. But if not then thanks to all for the advice and help over the last few years and the random threads in the off topic section.

In the words of Vinnie Jones, it's been emotional