Have a look through peoples detailing threads on here, give you a good general idea.

But generally for me

Weekly wash.
Wash wheels
Wash body
Dry

Monthly wash
Pre wash ( snowfoam)
Wash wheels
wash body
Dry

Big detail
Pre wash
Wheels off and wash wheels
Wash body
Dry off
clay
( if needed ) polish
Re wash
Wax

Show detail
Prewash
Wheels off and wash
dry
clay
wax

Done!