The 35's are a safe choice, I've taken a small risk with these. If you are not careful the shocks can bottom out and this will eventually break them. Saying that, I've only had it happen once over about 5000 miles and if you know the roads it's not really a problem.
No problems at all with speed bumps, you just have to take your time

All I've changed are the springs, the standard shocks seem to be coping fine. The ride on them is supreme, so much better than standard and there is virtually no body roll. I love them
