hey guys thought id have a little rant on here - basically cos im bored at work and stuff doing my head in.
basically ive got 2 jobs - a manger in the day and care worker at night.
my other half has started working as 24 hour recovery so he does 4 days on and 4 off.
im just finding it really hard to actually spend anytime together at the moment so when we do im usually knakered and he wants to see his friends (luckily we have the same group of mates so go out together) but sometimes it just feels like he is choosing them over me.

last night for example, when he got back from the job he was doing he rang his mate (who was out with me) to see if he was out. this annoyed me as i would of thought he would be wanting to ring me first as we havent spent anytime together this week?
then he came out so i had a little dig at him bout it. then this mate wanted a lift somewhere so we said ye ok but i wanted to be in 12ish as working today and been going to bed 1-2am last few nights.
then met some other mates, he went off gabbing with them, hardly spoke to me all night then suprise suprise he got called out to a recovery.

off he went and i had a mini cry and just txt him saying i wanted to spend some time with him to which he basically replied that he wanted to see his mates too.
all a nightmare but do you people think im over reacting or any one got any suggestions??

im working today, he should finish at 2pm so if he was a normal guy he would probs suggest we do something together tonight...is that a fair expectation???

opinions pls