The options I added to my car are as follows:
Bluetooth + voice control
Auto wipers and lights
MP3 connector
Climate Control
Privacy Glass
ESP/reflex Pack
I would highly recommend all of those options however if you dont have a bluetooth phone and dont intend to get one then the voice control is just a bit of a gimmick really (good one tho

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I think the folding mirrors are a complete waste of dosh as they fold in manually anyway and the sunroof seems silly as youve got aircon, and its a manual one anyway.
The stripes are purely cosmetic and are just how you want your car to appear. Easy to fit as an aftermarket option though. Although with the ESP it isnt possible to fit it aftermarket so if you want it you NEED to specify it from the start.
Dont go for the interior styling pack, it gives you a tacky silver add on over the radio (which the facelift doesnt need) and the mats can be picked up from ford for about £50.
Hope this has been of some help to you
